How to Get Soft, Shiny and Silky Hair

In my last blog post I promised I’d be writing more about the stuff you wanted to know about me or some beauty tips I have to share with you, so here it is!

A question I get all the time is – How do I get soft, shiny and silky hair?

Truth be told – there’s many ways to do this. Yes, there is not only one and you can always get creative about it but I will go through specific methods that I have been using for the past couple of years that have been very effective, really giving me that soft, shiny and silky hair!

The best part about proper hair care is that you don’t need a lot of money and most of this stuff can be prepared at home. Many of us make a mistake by only going to hairdressers or beauty salons to do your treatments and hair care, while actually the best treatment your hair can have starts at your home.


My number one product is…. (wait for it)… APPLE CIDER VINEGAR! This is literally a life saver when it comes to achieving that perfect soft, shiny and silky hair! What apple cider vinegar does to your hair is actually restore the hair to its proper pH value. As a result, you will have hair that’s much healthier and stronger. And yes – it works!

So, how do you do it?

It’s actually pretty easy.

  1. Shampoo your hair the same way you usually would and try to rinse it with cold water (I know this can sound like a difficult thing to do, but try doing it part by part and avoid scalp in case it is too cold for you).
  2. Use both water and apple cider vinegar to make a mixture. Make sure to use equal amounts of both water and apple cider vinegar.
  3. Let the mixture sit in your hair for a while (15 mins would be perfect)
  4. Rinse it out (with warm water this time) and there’s your perfect soft, silky and shiny hair!

An excellent and affordable alternative to apple cider vinegar is coconut oil that seriously does wonders to your split ends and soothes hair immediately after you rinse it off. You can use it as a mask and apply it on your hair while it’s wet but only on your ends since it will get too greasy if you apply it to your scalp. Let it sit on your hair for 30 minutes, then rinse it off and you’re good to go!

So that’s about it! Simple, yet effective tricks that helps me achieve the soft, silky and shiny hair. It takes less than 30 mins of your time yet your hair will thank you, trust me! Try to repeat it weekly and I’m sure you’ll see some amazing results.

Make sure to share your experience in the comments section if you decide to try this!



  1. Simonetta Lein
    December 20, 2017 / 3:50 am

    Thank you for these home made hair cares. I did not know about Apple cider vinegar, so cool. Also coconut oil, I love it for so mamy things. Thx for this post, very useful

  2. December 20, 2017 / 8:33 am

    Your hair always look so amazing and shiny. I uses apple cider vinegar rinse to keep the pH balance of my scalp and tips since I tend to have oily scalp and dry tips and it has been working really well. Thanks for sharing your personal styling tips, I’m sure many will appreciate it.
    xo ShereePosh Classy Mom

  3. Anthony Urbano
    December 20, 2017 / 4:16 pm

    I never would have thought to use apple cider vinegar! Your hair looks great so it must work!

  4. Eva
    December 20, 2017 / 7:26 pm

    Great grandma tricks always worked . The vinegar have many proprieties and working for everything.Thanks to remember his . You looking awesome on the beach

  5. December 20, 2017 / 9:31 pm

    Hey Darling:)How are you?I heard this Trick too but never tried,now I will for sure:) Your Hair is Amazing:)Wish you Happy HolidaysLove Kisses Karina

  6. December 21, 2017 / 5:11 pm

    Rinsing your hair with cold water during the summer is easy but yes it is a challenge on winter but it’s so good for our hair. When I lived in Asia my hair was amazing because I was able to rinse it in cold water. I super love your hair btw!

  7. Samjah
    December 22, 2017 / 3:54 am

    I use apple cider vinegar for my face, to take a bath in and to drink but I never thought to use it on my hair. I’m trying this method ASAP!

  8. December 22, 2017 / 7:27 pm

    Omg I didn’t know about these tricks! Thanks for sharing!!

  9. gina diaz
    December 22, 2017 / 9:46 pm

    Thank you so much for such great tips to soothe my hair, I really didn’t know that coconut oil was so amazing does for restoring the hair. I will be getting some this weekend, definitely, need this treatment. Happy holidays!
    xx. Gina

  10. Jennifer Quattrucci
    December 22, 2017 / 11:54 pm

    This is so fascinating! I had no idea it could be so simple and affordable to have such beautiful hair! Thank you so much!

    December 23, 2017 / 5:55 pm

    Girl. First of all – your body Is amazing!? Love your hair too and you are right, no need to spend hundreds on products. I use coconut oil masks but need to try apple cider vinegar!

  12. December 24, 2017 / 1:12 pm

    I’ve heard that apple cider vinegar does the trick! I really need to try this tip. Thanks for sharing – your hair definitely looks so smooth <3xo Samantha

  13. December 25, 2017 / 8:25 pm

    I’m an ardent ACV user as my hair is 4c texture and I love me some hair time at home as I feel no one can care for your hair better than you!!!Thanks for sharing !!i hope you and your family had an amazing Christmas celebration!!!x

  14. December 26, 2017 / 6:18 pm

    I’ve actually heard of the apple cider vinegar thing before but I’ve never actually tried it out for myself. Now that I’ve heard from you how great it is I’m definitely going to be giving it a try!!!!

  15. Maryam
    December 27, 2017 / 3:45 am

    These are great tips. You have gorgeous hair. Thanks for sharing.xx,

  16. December 28, 2017 / 2:53 pm

    Woah, never in a million years could I have thought of apple cider vinegar! I’ve heard of coconut oil and olive oil and God knows what, but now you gave me a tip I absolutely have to try out! :)Thomas xx

  17. Valeria
    December 29, 2017 / 8:23 am

    Vinegar will be a new addition to my haircare then! I use coconut oil already but didn’t know about vinegar! Love, Valeria

  18. January 1, 2018 / 10:26 am

    Wow my darling. You look really amazing and honestly your tips are awesome. I am sure that the ladies here will go insaine over that post.